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Bobbi Martens's avatar

Also so much discomfort at “hero” as well as “noble” and a few others. Partly just because it feels like it flattens the highs and lows of the whole story it is.

Bringing back some moments/comments on our parenting through Amy’s life and death.

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Emily Nye Hoos's avatar

People don't know what to say in these instances, and while I understand, I also wish they would be more willing to sit in the grief with me rather than tell me how fantastic I am for doing a hard thing. And Bobbi, I can't imagine the things people have said to you. No one should have to go through what you guys went through. And to be called "noble" or a hero? That's not ok.

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Chuck Nye's avatar

Courageous is the word that comes to mind ❤️

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Sarah Olson's avatar

REALLY enjoyed listening to this from your voice while I read along, Emily! Great writing/narrating. And keep on keeping on, there, Momma! You’ve got this!

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Kathi Ickes's avatar

I followed your journey! Heart wrenching!

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